(Sincere condolences to the one who has suffered a loss)
So, here is your chance - what can it be? What is this ''thing'' which is of vital importance?
There's two ways of doing this - submit your answer as a comment, and I'll publish them straight away,
submit it as a comment and I'll hold them back until she's done her big reveal.
What do you think? Honestly, I think to hold them back, because otherwise she might just nick your ideas, as she's probably still making it up.
The nearest one wins a virtual prize (That's to lower your expectations, don't get excited)
I'll have a go as well.